Something’s Gotta Give But It Shouldn’t Be Sleep Part 2: How Many Hours of Sleep Should My Child Get Each Night?

We provide food, shelter, and clothing to our loved ones.  Family health insurance, health care, safety, and love. Fun times, entertainment, stimulation, and stability.  We go out of our way to make sure all of these needs are met.  So why do we disregard the importance of sleep?

Never mind that we don’t get enough sleep for ourselves between all those deadlines.  How much sleep are your children getting?  I can match up bad days at school, extra fighting between my two kids, and inability to get homework done after school with nights that they did not get adequate sleep. The results are the same 100% of the time.

My Son 13 is grouchy, mean, and unfocused.  He cannot get his homework done and throws anger tantrums over the tiniest things.

My Daughter 9 is whiney, short fused, stomps her feet and has a crying meltdown.

These things ONLY happen when they are tired and they happen EVERY time their sleep pattern is compromised.  The time spent tending to all this drama is far greater than time spent putting some steps into place to help keep everyone on track.  More on that in part 3.

For now, here is what kind of sleep your children should be getting, according to webmd.

  • 1-4 weeks old          15 1/2 – 16 1/2 hours
  • 1-4 months old        14 1/2 – 15 1/2 hours
  • 4-12 months old      14-15 hours
  • 1-3 years old            12-14 hours
  • 3-6 years old             10 3/4 – 12 hours
  • 7-12 years old           10-11 hours
  • 12-18 years old          8 1/4-9 1/2 hours

How does your household compare?

11 thoughts on “Something’s Gotta Give But It Shouldn’t Be Sleep Part 2: How Many Hours of Sleep Should My Child Get Each Night?

  1. When looking at the number of hours you have given, I don’t think most of the kids these days even come closer to that.Sleeping is a very important thing and must use it correctly for your own good health.By the way those facts given by you were some nice findings. Keep up the good work!

  2. I think its best to get them into a routine at a young age because sleep is very important. But there ovbuilsy break the pattern in there teens i no i did.

  3. Hot glass of milk at night and get them use to sleeping early. I suffer from lack of sleep early on and the habit is hard to break. Now a days, if i’m averaging 4-5 hours on weekdays and making it all up on weekends. It sucks…but it’s become a hard habit to break.

  4. I have a five-month old daughter and she sleeps 10 hours a day. Is there any reason for me to be alarmed if she gets less sleep than what is required? She’s very much awake in the middle of the night and doesn’t want to sleep. So I let her play until she starts to nod off.

  5. My son is 4.5 years old and I am worried about his sleeping habits. He is my only son so there are somethings wrong which shouldn’t happen. I often allow him to do the stuff and break the laws but it is wrong. Anyways he is sleeping 10 hours and now I’ll keep a strict eye on him.